Widowhood

I had never heard of widowhood until recently. I am always up to learn something more though. I know that culture and societal expectations dictate many things that surround widows (and widowers) and how they are supported. The struggle or problem is that many people do not consider them as in need of support or added attention. …but they do.

The definition of Widowhood is the state or period of being a widow or widower. Yep. That is rather generic. It does, however, describe the phase of life after the death of one’s spouse, including the enormous emotional and social impact that comes with it. It encompasses grieving, transitioning to life without a spouse, and negotiating changes in social roles and relationships. Biblically, this would fit quite nicely as a definition.

Being left alone without spousal companionship and support would be quite an adjustment in a whole complex of ways.

The impact of widowhood causes enormous changes and transformations for both the individual and society. Nevertheless, widowhood is perceived differently across cultures and societies, influenced by cultural, religious, and traditional beliefs. 

In some cultures, widows are esteemed for their loyalty and devotion to their deceased spouses. In other cultures, the widowhood is being discriminated against. I do not understand why that is. There is a stereotype or two that are attached to widows and widowers, depicting them as helpless, dependent, or even cursed. Cursed? 

These negative perceptions can result in social isolation, economic hardship, and fewer opportunities for widows to rebuild their lives. Perceptions of widowhood differ significantly across cultures. How can and will a supportive environment for widows be established without understanding them?

If we took the time to understand what GOD saw and sees in widows and their care, support and love, we would ask fewer silly questions pertaining to helping them. Need I remind you how much the Bible exclaims how much he loves them?! That gives the connotation that His followers should too.

Following a spouse’s death, widows face a lot of obstacles in both societal and familial contexts, be it emotionally, financially, or socially. Understanding the issues that widows deal with is critical to offering proper support.

Therefore, acquiring knowledge about these difficulties promotes empathy and allows for customized solutions to lessen their load.